Friday, June 20, 2008

Realtionships, what do I know?

Hmmm, where do I even start? I, of all people, have no room to talk about other peoples' relationships. And I guess that's what I want to say.
Every relationship has their own issues, and unless we are in that relationship, we really have no right to judge others for who they go after or which person has made their heart flutter.
The important thing, is to be there for your friend when they need you to listen to what they are going through. Sometimes they don't even want advice from you, they just want a sympathetic ear to say, "Yeah, maybe it is tough, but sometimes it's worth it to find out ."
It irks me when people think that they are right about what their friend should do. Yes, we never want our friend to be hurt, but who are we to say that the decisions they've made are wrong? Sometimes it's that hurt that finds us the right person. It may not be from that relationship they're having troubles with but it makes that person stronger for the next person to come along.
I say go for it, you never know until you try.


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